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Yess it’s All about Anal sex,  Objectionable or is it...

Anal sex is most often refers to the sex act involving insertion of the penis into the anus of a sex partner  in a Girlfriend situation commonly known as GFE and those who entertain this in London known as LondonGFE. The term ‘anal sex’ can also sometimes include other sexual acts involving the anus, including anal–oral sex, fingering, and object insertion. Whilst anal sex is still a taboo subject for many people and illegal is some states of America. Why do so many men like anal sex so much? Well, could it be the main reason and most probably the main factor that stimulates men to practice anal sex is that this section is much more forbidden and it seems that it’s becoming so popular among heterosexuals as suppose to vaginal sex. But there is a different question with women side and female have much more likes and as supposed to dislikes about anal sex.
In America a study was carried out in 2009 by the American college of undergraduates, and found the large majority of heterosexual, that one in four reported to having had anal sex, while the figures for the general population range between forty and seventy-eight percent. This kind practise has been dated back far as 365BC for many reason other than a means of contraception, and surprising only now more and more people are finding the added pleasure of this forbidden fruit of pleasure.
Though people from all walks of life practise this form of act, for whatever reasons vary greatly, but the main reason is pleasure that the both parties involved derived. Actually anal sex can be most enjoyable and very pleasurable for women due to biological factors, that the rectum shares a membrane with the vagina and the cluster of sexual nerves are closer to the anus, which makes the sensation far stronger and unique, so I really don’t see what the fuss is about. Though anal sex is pleasurable when excited for many people, thus enabling them to reach more powerful orgasm, with or without the stimulation of their genitals, be it a penis or clitoris.
The women pleasure is derived through a mixture of pain and extreme pleasure of the penis penetrating gently her anus till as far as she can take and then the penis is with-drawn till it’s almost out and push back in again till as far she can take inside her, repeat this gentle action for as long it take for her to relax her mussels and start to enjoy and that trusting can take place and some or many reaches intense orgasm due to the shared nerve ending located between the rectal wall and the vagina, by the rubbing action from the penis on the walls of cervix and G-Spot area. If this rhythm is done at the right angle, while stimulating her clitoral and playing with her nipples, you are sure to give her the most powerful orgasm of her life and leaving her feeling truly satisfied and ever lasting impression of you..., For the benefit of the men who want to or enjoy their G-Spot stimulated, his partner must cut their nails and lubricate before inserting into the man’s anus, while still performing fellatio, commonly known as BJ or Blow Job, even though I cannot see why it is called that, considering the whole action is about sucking the penis and not blowing at it...  Anyway while performing fellatio, which is the act of sucking and licking a penis head and the shaft of the penis, you must gently insert your middle finger into his anus and perform a stoking and rotating action while still moving your finger in and out motion from his anus. This type of prostate massaging in a man anus can lead to strong ejaculation  and orgasm; The same is true for woman, the only difference is that you perform cunnilingus , this is the action of a person performing cunnilingus uses the mouth to pleasure the woman by licking, flick, darting and sucking her virginal area, if perform with G-Spot stimulation, this is the action where a finger is inserted about a one to one and half inches into the vagina and rubbed the upper part walls, this is the underside of the pubic bone with a stroking action, the whole experience can lead to be exhilarating orgasmic experience for her...

For a small number woman, the act of anal sex is least favourite, because of the discomfort and pain involved, therefore one should not forced upon her and wait for to get used to the idea and in the mean time one can encourage to take the initiative, or the easy way out this is to seeks another woman who is more open and adventurous, and who is suited to your needs. In some case studies, there was many questioned ask about the dislikes and likes about anal sex, and are listed below for your information:-  
1. Generally woman wants to avoid because she is worried about the mess, and anal sex obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea of someone one could penetrate her butt and coming out in a sticky situation is greatly embarrassing for her, even before the act takes place, and mostly for this reason she would avoid engaging in anal sexy altogether. Male must understand woman spend much time making themselves beautiful in look and smell wonderful and to have something ruin this image by messy and smelly can be devastating for her ego. All of this embarrassment can be avoided by empting her bowels one hour before engaging and also the use of anal douche before engaging in anal play, if don’t know how to douche, Someone people uses the end of the shower and running the water at luke warm temperature and forcing the water into the anal passage for between three second (3sec) and five seconds (5sec), then let it run-out into the toilet or the shower tray and wash away by jetting the water on heavy waste (stools), so they may drain easy, Repeat this process further twice or three times and then insert small amount of water based lubricant ‘ KY Jelly’ into your anus. The clean your back passage have some health benefits, and would feel much lighter and if you suffer from headache douching can help alleviate and also healthy looking glowing skin.
2. According to woman magazine, they say that the woman hand their sexual power over to their partner, This myth never hold any grounds of the truth, the fact of this truth is woman want the male to do all the work while she enjoys herself and then complain. So here are the true facts, You have to trust your partner and it take both parties who are involved to give and take in pleasuring each other, but ultimately each of you are responsible for your own orgasms, so no one is to be blame during any sexual act, and one must also remember if you are experience pain, then take it slow and easy, before long that pain turns into pleasure without a doubt...
3. Women think most men are inconsiderate, this is far from the truth, I might be incline to agree if they were boy and guys, but men are truly are considerate and everything that any woman or lady could ask for. But for those Penis who can’t give a dame or inexperience, remember if you are not carful it can cause serious damage to a woman by hurting terribly when it comes to anal aperture if male are not careful. So please remember to take your time and prepare her by turning her on with foreplay to relax her and when it time for the real fun, remember to lubricate your penis and her anus.
4. Whether you are a woman or man, if you are insensitive and selfish, then you lost the game, so bear in mind to give and take. So when it comes to anal sex woman make sure that her partner is smart enough to understand some things as using a lot of lubricant to avoid discomfort, and for those of you who want a hand on approach, then get in touch with me via email to arrange appointment...   londongfeescorts@yahoo.co.uk    

So a note to those women who doesn’t like anal sex and who have not tried it, firstly remember to avoid pain and bad feelings, learn it the art of it from someone who is experience at it. And for those women who have tried it and love it, here are some pointers and advises for men what women need to love it:
1, Women love the idea of new and different and if put to her in her when she is in a receptive state; present to her an opportunity to try something new in bed. The is a 99.9 percent chance that she is going to say ‘yes’, and if done the right way, she might end up preferring sex from behind first.
2, Always start with a lot of foreplay, i.e. kissing, so make sure your breath smells fresh, stroking her hand and fingers while still looking at her face and eyes, kiss her ears gently and nibble at the ear flash, anyway I think you get the idea, and if don’t get it visit one our escorts at LondonGFEescorts.com and practise with them first.
3, The male must work on her clitoris with his fingers in a rhythmic way, while kissing the side of her neck and ears, it will not only heighten her pleasure, but also make her reach her powerful orgasms faster, and this also ensures her rectal muscles more relaxed and inviting you to enter her deep, but for those guys who think it’s ok to hammer her ass, please restrain yourself till she is hook on anal sex.
4, The only thing that is going to keep women away from trying anal sex is pain, so reassure her and let her know, that there is no pain when her anus learn to relax and the way to do that is for her to keep doing it the right way, just as her virginal muscles  had to learn to relax, I can assure any women that, the women who have tried have said that there orgasm have been more powerful than virginal orgasm, so try it and see how it feels, and if you want your experience to be pleasurable, join us as an escort get taught at LondonGFEescorts.com
5, Pleasure is at hand when the women relaxed, have virginal sex till she reaches her orgasm or multiple orgasm. The state of orgasm can be reached with the most extreme situation of a woman find hard to reach, the guy would have to do between 200 to1000 rhythmic strokes this usually helps the woman to reach her peak of her orgasm quickly, before having anal sex and be sure to apply plenty of lube on her bum opening and massage her anus with your middle finger and then with two fingers or three, but try NOT to force heavy headedly, after you feel she is relaxed, be sure to ask her, if she would like to try taking your well lubricated penis inside of her, this form of asking always encourages her to be proactive and feels a sense of trust and consciously would losing her anus to accommodate your genital hence your penis, no matter what size you are be extremely gentle with the first penetration for about between 20 to100 strokes, before you starting your normal rhythm.
A quick look on for those woman who feels that they are at large that, why would any woman let a guy enter her back side if she knows it’s going to be painful..., It is very easy, because woman wants to know how it feel, they know pain is inevitable at first till learning to relax, but that’s part of the thrill of it all. There are many woman who love it because for them, it is a very easy way to reach powerful orgasms, but not for few. In general anal sex is not bad or harmful if a man or guy knows enough how to do it in a right way. Remember to wear condom and you will prevent yourself from all kind of negative consequences and if you forget to wear condom be sure to wash well with soap or washing-up liquid and apply some antibacterial hand gel, this would help, but this only my opinion as I am not a medical doctor, yet.

          As for the men who like to receive anal sex, nearly two thirds rate pain on being penetrated as their frequent psychological problem, as well as technique. As the rectal mucous membrane provides little natural lubrication, therefore it is always advisable to use water based lubricant, as this dramatically the discomfort and pain of having anal sex.
Anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice, and unprotected anal sex is the riskiest of all forms of sexual intercourse, so if you must have bareback anal sex, I suggest the male apply a generous amount of pure petroleum jelly at the tip of the penis by pushing small amount into the opening and the whole head and the length of the penis. But without putting you off anal sex, one must be aware of the hazardous are due to the vulnerability of the tissues, as the penetration of the anus may cause tearing and bleeding of the soft tissues, and can damage the sphincter muscles, causing incontinence and anal prolapse. It is also due to the high concentration of disease causing organisms in the anus and the introduction of pathogens during the sex act itself, exposing the participants to a spectrum of contagious diseases. Some authorities judge that all anal sex is unsafe, due to the high rates of condom failure, including those brands that claim to be specially strengthened, and always remember to wash as quickly as possible after the act and bust pee, this is done by pressing the middle way of your penis and releasing so your pee jets out, do this few time and wash well...
The below list are types of sexual activity involving the anus:
1, Finger into the partners anus, the rightful word is ‘postillionage ’
2, ‘Butt plug’, these are sex toys that is useful to dilate the anal opening and this highten the sensation of fullness
3, Vibrators use of this device have to be used with caution, the same precaution as you would so using a penis, be sure to be gentle when penetrating the anus.
4, Rimming, this is the use of your tongue on the anus to lick or probe or both, this method is known to its effectiveness in helping the female reach climax, this also help people who have erectile problems.
5, If the woman cannot have any form of contraception this act is good for both parties involved as they both derive the pleasure, but be warned man and guys if you are not good at controlling your climax, then it is advisable to foreplay and bring her to orgasm first using the method describe above or be creative and imaginative and go with the flow.
6, The practise of anal fist is for very advance lovers, I do caution all who want or like to try it, and this is the art of putting your fist into the well lubricated anus.
One must remember even in this so call liberal society there are taboos surrounding the various types of sexual practise and particularly anal intercourse, but the research have show that biological the many nerve ending from the spinal cord branching from Sacrum and coccyx in both sexes. It is not surprising that many who have tried it in the correct way have a need to include it as part of their sexual pleasure act. We should understand these may even arouse strong feelings of moral indignation and anxiety amounts those who are still trying to expend their understanding. It is imperative that one must remember that while some individuals find these activities repugnant, while others who are more open minded would find them stimulating, exciting, and normal part of their sexual intimacy. The KEY is to remember what take place in private must be kept private no matter what other say, unless you want to share your experience with other like minded minds, this way you are not open to discrimination, but everyone should know there are legality and consenting issues are at play in the UK and Many other countries. In the UK, anal intercourse is a legal activity between consenting male and female minimum is age sixteen 16yrs, except in Northern Ireland where it is age seventeen 17yrs, even though some research have shown very large number of Irish practise this form of act between all ages, no wonder Irish woman are so sexy. In other countries it is still a criminal offence punishable with a custodial sentences, or corporal or even capital punishment or even some colonies of Britain and forbidden in some states of USA, and these oppressive countries have one thing in common they like to tell you what to do, is this the new kind of freedom, I let you decide this for yourself...
In a consenting feely and given by both partner is an essential part of a loving relationship is key point regardless of what others say, there are many individuals, both females and males, have secret fantasies involving anal intercourse but feels unable to discuss them with their partners. In some situations some partners have pressured their partners and even this is not acceptable behaviour, but many have ended up loving it, but bear in mind the counties you reside in there laws...

 

28/06/2010